Presbyterian pastor Rebecca Kirkpatrick writes an excellent blog entitled Bread, Not Stones about nurturing our children’s faith. A few months ago, when God called her and her husband to another form of Christian service, her family searched for a church home. You can read her post about that here. It’s full of good counsel for anyone looking for a church home.
After her family settled in to a new congregation, Rebecca wrote this thoughtful post entitled “The Sound of My Child’s Voice: Choosing Our New Church Home.” I was greatly heartened to read that her family did not automatically cross a small congregation that only had a few children off their list. They had two congregations to choose from in their location, a more contemporary style congregation with many of the offerings that families often want, and a smaller, more traditional congregation. Both were good churches, but the Kirkpatrick family eventually chose the smaller congregation. A big part of it was the way their six-year-old son’s voice is welcomed and needed there. She notes that, in more ways than one, he can be heard in the smaller church. Do read the whole post, but here are a couple of excerpts:
“[W]hen we sing hymns that I remember loving as a child, I can hear his tiny and clear voice singing next to me. The music may be “old fashioned,” but I swear he sings louder, probably because he can finally hear his own voice. I like that after a hymn the adult sitting in front of him will often turn around and tell him what a nice job he did. ”